Happiness is YOU



There are some people in the world without emotions , without care , love . They live their lives in a concept of  “what benefits you have for me” and so equally he will help you. Even families and friends; actually there is no such bond . If we are cousins and I don’t have anything to give you then there is basically no need for you to visit me at hospital when am are sick . I have seen people like that & worst,  I have seen a whole community like that. Barbarian ! They only live searching for the food today. No love , no childhood and eventually no happiness. We’re lucky however, that such world is limited.

Few months back I was sick ,very sick . And the care I saw in the people around me , the love I saw in their eyes ; made me consider what happiness really is ?

Happiness lies in the family and friends and the bond of love between them . That can never break .  You find them supporting , holding hands , hugging and most of all telling you that ” Everything will be alright “.

It’s a blessing to have people you can call ” These are my family and friends”  . Whether  you lost someone in your life or no. To have one member who represents the world to you is enough . Life goes on. Enjoy the moment  and search for what makes you happy . If you look around ; you will find happiness in the face of playing child, in the shining sun, in the flowers and in the old man’s smile who says “Hello” . It’s like the old game that we use to play as kids ; the game when we use to search for happy things around. Play it now as an adult  and search for what makes you happy. Deep inside you know it’s there.

Be Happy






Farewell My Friend

It was beautiful as long as it lasted
The journey of my life.
I have no regrets whatsoever
save the pain I’ll leave behind.
Those dear hearts who love and care…
And the strings pulling at the heart and soul…
The strong arms that held me up
When my own strength let me down.
At every turning of my life I came across good friends,
Friends who stood by me,
Even when the time raced me by.
Farewell, farewell my friends
I smile and bid you goodbye.
No, shed no tears for I need them not
All I need is your smile.
If you feel sad do think of me
for that’s what I’ll like when you live in the hearts
of those you love, remember then
you never die.

– Rabindranath Tagore

Is it Friendship or Love ?

There are moments in our lives that we can’t hide our feelings. Situations that requires truth and courage. Moments that all you need to do is JUST SAY WHAT’S IN YOUR HEART. Don’t bother much about how things may go, but be happy that deep inside you said it.
We all have friends, close friends that we can’t imagine how our life would have been without them around. Close friendship is a very strong relationship and it lasts for a life time. He\ she is the one you go to when you’re sad. The one that carries all your burdens. The one that makes you smile, you laugh together, hang out together and enjoy together. You talk about everything; all types of secrets, your problems and even your love stories. But what happens when your friend tries to ruin your love story and your date. When your friend becomes jealous and they hide their feelings which are obviously more than friendship, you saw something intimate in their eyes.
There are such moments when friendship becomes love. But what I try to question in here is not the relation but what to do next. Are you going to say what’s in you heart?
You may consider not talking and just keep the silence for you don’t want to lose that friend or you may slowly step back and go away simply because you can’t that feeling of incapability anymore. Or you may say it and share with them the fact that you are in love and take the consequences whether good or bad.
Regards ,

I’m Sorry

Your care , your eyes
Your warmth , your smile
It was all about love
It was alaways love
I’m sorry for the pain
That i caused
I’m sorry for the heart
That i broke
I’m sorry for all
That i’ve done to you
I was so dumb
Not to see it
Though i felt it so deep
Maybe i knew it
But i tried to deny it
For the fact that we are
Two different people
From two different divisions
A love that can’t be
But in dream and hope
I lived
Take my heart
Take the whole of me if you wish
Am yours and i’ll  always be
I’m yours to love me
I’m your to leave me
I’m yours to tear me
But i’ll always be yours
I’m sorry for the pain
That i caused
I’m sorry for the heart
That i broke
I’m sorry for all
That i’ve done to you.
Regards ,

A Friend We All Need …



We all need someone , someone to hear us , someone to talk to , someone to cry with us . There’s gotta be always someone .

There are times when we wish to have no one around . When we are so upset that we can’t even let a friend share . But have you ever wondered how selfish and mean you are by this act. Because you simply should know that this is not your problem alone ; that this not your own sorrow but your friend’s as well. While you try to keep your friend away , you don’t notice that your hurting them . They are going through the same pain . True friends won’t leave you and will keep knocking your door no matter how your shut it & say ” Go Away ! I don’t want to talk to anyone “ They stay and stay and wait until you calm down and start talking .


Maybe they can’t really change it or help out. But the fact that you shared with them will mean a lot to your friendship and maybe both of you can do find a way out. It’s all  about the values it carries.

” It is the friends you can call up at 4 a.m. that matter. “~Marlene Dietrich

I was alone , I found books & papers my best friend. I kept distance from my friends . Until I realized that I really needed someone to hug me & talk to. As much as I got used to loneliness as much I can understand how dark it is to be alone. Walking in the darkness with a friend holding your hand is much better than walking in the light alone.

For all those who are alone ; there will come a time that you will badly wish to have a friend you can  trust with your life. But before finding a friend – try to be one .

Let those who are around you realize it and share your life . Let them share your happiness , your sadness , your problems , your tears……… let them share your dreams ad hopes too. Because life will be sweeter then. At least at that time you will know that there is someone out there worried about you and cares a lot.

Hard times proves who sticks around and so are friends if they don’t’ show up when you need then why say ” A friend in need is a friend indeed “.

Friendship is a complicated relationship  , it goes through a lot of hardships , changes and troubles . True friends manage to go through all that and yet they love each other and stay together. That’s what friendship is all about after all  ” To Stay Together Forever “


Dedicated to a dear friend of mine .


Friendship Day

A Friend Is Someone

A friend is someone who…

Is concerned with everything you do. Is concerned with everything you think.
Calls upon during good time. Calls upon during bad time.
Understands whatever you think. Understands whatever you do.
Tells you the truth about yourself. Knows what you are going through all time.
Refuses to listen the gossip about you. Supports you all the time.
Does not compete with you.

 Genuinely happy for you when things go well.