You wonder how the days have passed by, and how strong we became . We learn to move on; even though what we leave behind is so painful- but we go on. Life don’t stop and the days makes us learn how beautiful things are ahead, It’s not easy but we are all capable of doing it. We have to deal with it no matter how we feel guilty sometimes.
Leave you with these words from Rascal Flatts .
I have recieved an sms on my cellphone saying these following words , ” Life is between B and D – that is between birth and death …but in between comes C- which stands for the Choice. “
So everything in out life is about the choices we make . The choices we make will only define the type of person we are. And just as the philosophers explain it as a personal development sense , we choose from many alternatives infront of us whether beliefs , lifestyle , behaviours and even the type of people we want to be with.
For example we have the right to choose either we want to ride the bus or walk . We choose either we wanna cook today or order.. we choose either we wanna be a dentist or an engineer. It’s who we are- we are making at the end.
Though we are enjoying to make our own choices and the fact that we sometimes regret making them . The fact we feel guilty most of the time. It’s really hard to have the choice of everything in your life. Yes! we make it .. and Yes! we live it . But when it comes to making a serious decisions in your life such as ending a relationship or starting a relations ; it really takes a courage to do so.
There was a time that i felt sorry for taking a decision . I made my choice an di know i did.. and i know i can’t take it back. But It was the best to be done.. and it was the worst at the same time. However, I think it was a wise thing to do. You will always be in my heart and am sorry if i caused you any harm .
So whatever choice you have to make . You better be clear about it and be sure of what you want to do , but most of all make sure you don’t hurt anyone .
Farewell My Friend
It was beautiful as long as it lasted
The journey of my life.
I have no regrets whatsoever
save the pain I’ll leave behind.
Those dear hearts who love and care…
And the strings pulling at the heart and soul…
The strong arms that held me up
When my own strength let me down.
At every turning of my life I came across good friends,
Friends who stood by me,
Even when the time raced me by.
Farewell, farewell my friends
I smile and bid you goodbye.
No, shed no tears for I need them not
All I need is your smile.
If you feel sad do think of me
for that’s what I’ll like when you live in the hearts
of those you love, remember then
you never die.
– Rabindranath Tagore
I was lately listening to a song for Celine Dion named by “All by myself ” and it brought to my mind how we might think that we can really stand alone by our own selves. That we can manage everything alone; that we don’t need anyone else; that we can be all by ourselves.
But we are wrong. But you are wrong . But I was wrong. I don’t want to cry alone.. i want someone to hug me and rub my tears away. I don’t want to get sick alone . I don’t want to be sad alone. And so do you !
So why do we keep rejecting people from entering our lives.. why do we keep making distance just because we don’t want to let anyone inside. Why do we don’t like sharing our fears and tears and even happiness with others . Why is it always hard to do so?
I don’t want to be all by myself. And no one does. But it sometimes happens though we are a reason for that but yet we hate it and when it time comes that we are left alone- We hate ourselves and we become so frustrated. It kills us from inside however , you can’t stop it . You can’t change the fact that you are by yourself.